Sweet Dreams, Ollie...


Today was a sad day.
Sophie's little heart broke in pieces.
Her beloved Ollie is gone.
We discovered he had cancer after a very rapid deterioration which took us all by surprise.
He was only two years old.
I am sad, too.
We all are.
He was, in a word, sweet.
And little.
He never grew very big.
We used to joke that he must have been the runt of the litter.
Our sweet-natured, gentle little runt.

Sophie worried that we didn't take enough photos of him, so this is for her. I hope she will like it.

Goodbye Ollie.
We (especially Sophie) will miss you.


California Bound...


  I have been invited to attend a spectacular creative event in February, 2012:







I am so excited to share that I will be heading to the R and R conference held (on Feb. 10-11, 2012) in San Diego.  Lyndsay Johnson and Sarah Bradford of The Blog Guidebook have teamed up with my favourite jewellery designer Crystal B. to host this wonderful creative weekend event. I am honoured to have been asked to speak at the event and am looking forward to experiencing some sunny California weather during what I am sure will be one of our typical snowy Canadian winters!


In a nutshell, The R and R event is a two-day creative gathering featuring guest speakers (Matthew Mead is also on the docket), fashion advice from stylist Reachel Bagley, great food, an evening of music from Sarah Sample, photography lessons from Wendy Whitacre of Blue Lily, a jewelry making class, led by Crystal B., a cooking class, led by Hollywood chefs Denise DeCarlo and (Season Two Top Chef's) Betty Fraser, and blogging tips from the pros, Lyndsay and Sarah...plus a whole lot more!!!


The deadline to register is October 15th...and we all hope you will join us. I am so excited to meet so many new people and I hope YOU will be one of them!


Register HERE.

Home, homey, homely...

 (my dining room, photographed by Matthew Mead)

The deep thoughts were flying today.

I am going to have a very large yard sale very soon: as in, sell anything and everything I don't truly love. Although our home is not yet sold, I am preparing for that day and going through each and every cupboard, drawer, and bookshelf and purging. My new criteria for each item is, "Do I want to pack it?" and more often than not, the answer is no. 

Over a cup of coffee today, I told my husband, "You are going to be so surprised by how much I will get rid of." He stared back at me with a dubious grin, though I am fairly certain there was a glint of true hope in his eyes. 

Later, while digging through the trunk at the end of my bed, I came across my collection of prints and paintings that I have been slowly acquiring via Etsy. Saving them for my next house, I envision a fun and quirky art wall, not-so-strategically hung to reflect my growing desire for spontaneity in decorating.

Which got me to thinking how admitting to an obsession/desire for decorating can sometimes get you pegged as, perhaps, a bit shallow. As in, sure, we all want our homes to look nice but do we really want to admit that it is a passion

Then I went and checked my email, answering those that required direct attention, then casually filtering through my junk email folder. And then one caught my eye: it was from Cobi Ladner's Club Cobi newsletter.

Cobi Ladner was the genius editor of Canadian House and Home for many years but resigned from her position several years ago, much to my dismay. As much as I loved (and still love!) the beautiful photos and stories in its pages, I loved her editor's letter even more. Every word was genuine, interesting, and always filled with personality and tales of her home and her insights, rather than fluff. Cobi is no snob, and even flirted with the whole decorator vs designer debate with aplomb and her typical down-to-earth style. Can you tell I love Cobi?

Anyway, as I read her letter I was struck by a quote she shared (from design icon Iris Apfel):
"Self expression is the most important thing in life. If you don't have self expression you're all bottled up and you choke!"

And it is true. Everyone has a need for expression. Some write, paint, design, decorate, garden, compete, dance, sing, exercise, Tweet, blog, comment on others' blogs, etc. We all seem to have a need to express ourselves, to be heard, even if it is in a quiet way.

Which brings me back to my deep thought of the day: Will I be able to exercise restraint in my new home? Create a blank canvas, selecting furnishings, fabrics, and decor after long, thoughtful deliberation? Or will the empty spaces on the wall call out to me...begging me to fill them quickly so the house will feel like home? Will I be able to feel at home in a restrained environment? Will such a place feel homey (or homely, as the Brits like to say it!)...or barren? 

Time will tell. As I am discovering lately on many levels, the need for patience is being imposed upon me. Certain things are beyond my control and I must wait to see how they unfold. 

I wonder what Cobi would say?

Let's Get Moving...

Happy September!

 Swim, swam, swum...

I cannot believe that summer is drawing to a close (well, the kids are going back to school, right?). I am going to miss the little buggers, but I am really looking forward to getting back to my routine and not cleaning up the kitchen 48,569 times a day. It is one of my parenting shortfalls: I am terrible at getting my kids to truly pitch in; I am a bit particular and my kids play dumb when I try to explain how I want things put away, soooo...I usually wind up doing things myself.

Which kind of gives me license to be a martyr now and then, but most of the time it just makes me feel stupid.

Well, there are lots of things going on around these parts, one of the biggest being that our house is on the market. Anyone who has ever put their house up for sale knows how much fun that is, right? Don't you just looovee all the questions you get from people about number of showings, your reasons for selling, and what you are going to do once you DO sell? It is kind of like being in your final weeks of pregnancy when you feel like giving the stink-eye to well-meaning inquiries, but instead you just summon the same, practiced reply. 


So, to answer the obvious question: we decided to put our house on the market because it just felt like the right time. We always knew we had roughly a five-year expiry date with this house, to coincide with making a bit of money for upcoming college tuition for our teenage boys. New reasons have popped up to reassure us it is the right time to make our move, so we are happy we "got off the pot."
(And no, I'm not talking about illegal substances!)

We have a tentative plan to build a new home; but with us and our penchant for spontaneity, I never commit to a plan of action. So, what will transpire is a bit of a mystery, even to me.

My eldest had a birthday in July, and I can't believe how quickly my sons are becoming young men:


As for the rest of our summer, August was a bit kinder to us, weather-wise. We did experience some high winds, courtesy of Irene, but she didn't hit us like she did others, for which we are grateful. I hope you and yours stayed safe, if not plunged into darkness for a wee while.  All of my fellow East-coasters were on my mind.

 

Scratching away at The List, I also hosted a Fear Factor party for Sophie and a few of her friends a couple of weeks ago, which was fun. They did cold water stunts (our pool is unheated!) and had to eat some pretty yucky food (a "choice" of olives, dulse, or big dates). I was kind, though, and relieved their palates with some french fries and flower pot ice-cream cakes. I'm not cruel, after all....

She has a mouth full of crumbled Oreos, not dirt!

I have been having fun finding inspiration from many of you for my new home. I do know one thing for certain, I am going to be buying myself one of these gorgeous lights for somewhere in my new abode. 


Have you ever seen anything so awesome?

I found it while perusing one of my favourite sites for design inspiration, House and Home. It is also, coincidentally, one of my favourite Canadian design magazines. If you have never picked up this magazine, you are seriously missing out. It just keeps getting better and better. I still deeply miss Canadian Home and Country, though Erin McLaughlin is doing a fabulous job transforming Style at Home to incorporate some of the winning elements of CH&C. I wonder if she still misses the magazine as much as I do?


I am also very proud to report that we have completed both Autumn with Matthew Mead (sold on the website) and Holiday with Matthew Mead 2011, which will be sold on newsstands throughout the U.S. and Canada. It is so exciting for all of us involved, and for the loyal readers who have supported us from the get-go. I hope you check out both issues and let me know what you think!


So, good-bye summer! 

(But let's not make it official...you can hang around as long as you like!)